Steering Equilibrium Selection in Regularized Self-Play via the Reference Policy

Regularized self-play -- the family behind DeepNash's Stratego play -- drives a two-player zero-sum policy to a Nash equilibrium by best-responding to a slowly moving, entropy-regularized reference policy $\rho$. When the game has a polytope of value-equivalent equilibria, the regularizer silently breaks the tie: with a uniform reference it selects the maximum-entropy member, the I-projection of $\rho$ onto the Nash set. Can the reference be used to choose the equilibrium on purpose? On five exactly solvable games plus a 2-D polytope, with exact best responses and equivalence tests over independent seeds, anchoring the reference at a target member and refining steers self-play to that member with mean coordinate error 0.007 at median exploitability $5\times10^{-5}$, TOST-equivalent to the request within $\pm0.05$; the anchoring persists through refinement and follows the reference, not the initialization. Selection follows the reach-weighted I-projection (slope 0.969 [0.950, 0.987]). We report with equal emphasis where the story breaks: fixed off-manifold references cost 0.08-0.25 exploitability; stiff or flat families require a smaller mirror step, set by a pre-registered rule; boundary targets undershoot; curvature predicts where boundary saturation bites (rank correlation 0.90, p=0.037) while interior precision is curvature-independent. Table and MLP steering maps are equivalent within $\pm0.03$ at every target (30 seeds); matched control arms show attention's robust signature is excess seed variance, any systematic shift bounded at 0.018 and not significant. Against a best response the selection-robustness trade-off is degenerate: steering matters only against fixed, non-equilibrium opponents. The recipe -- anchor the reference at the desired member and refine -- reinterprets the KL anchor of RLHF-style RL as a selection knob, not only a stability leash.